where do we go from here ?? : Sun Mar 15, 2009 1:42 am
Having listened to the match on-line from a hotel room in Shanghai made me think logically & practically (as opposed to post-match emotionally) about our current situation
In any walk of life situation if an individual has confidence issues you provide that individual with support; be it a work issue, be it your children or maybe a family issue. Support is first & foremost priority
In the same walk of life however if an indivual simply is not performing (eg : the guy in the office refuses to do his job, the child refuses to do their homework, etc) then reasoning (as in showing the error of their ways and the impact to others) applies. Bollocking does not work in these situations (it can help, but certainly does not work)
It is well known that one person's emotions (in our case confidence) rub off on other people (be it other players or ourselves as fans)
Reverse the situation : that is ourselves as fans (as well as the coaching staff of course) provide the support to help re-build confidence and performances will change
As fans, by "bollocking" the players with boo's and jibes and other similar emotions will not help the player
Like many other fans it is very difficult to accept what is happening at present and no matter how hard it is I do keep a lid on my emotions in this sense as this achieves nothing
I know many fans will disagree saying I'm talking rubbish, but think about it for a while
This is our Club don't forget
COME ON THE WIRE .... !!