I differ from you Gareth. I love an atmosphere at games and I'd bet that the majority would rather watch a game with the atmosphere of derby day than the atmosphere of a quins v catalan match.
I've helped the Brigantes/Ultras with a few things in the past and put some suggestions to Jukesay about a few things too. Overall I'm happy with what they do but unfortunately they will attract some nobs which will give them a bad name. Recent history is littered with isolated incidents which have given opposition fans the ammunition to have a pop at all fans.
Wire fans baiting Wigan fans at the Catalan v Wigan semi final
Wigan fan pushing a girl over at Leeds resulting in a broken arm/wrist
Leigh fans throwing bottles onto the pitch in a pre-season friendly v Wigan
Some Wire morons, who may not have even been at the game, attacking a Wiganer on his way to the train station
There are many more incidents but it doesn't mean they're all idiots.
With regards to them thinking they're better fans. I'd put that down to other peoples insecurities rather than a superiority complex from the Ultras. Except of course Rogues Gallery. He probably is a better fan than most, but then he's had a lot more time to practise.
I don't have a problem with a drum in moderation, but then I am 60 yards away from it.